A BREAKTHROUGH FOR GAY MEN

Ninety percent of gay men suffer from a neurotic fear of “violence”.  This makes them, from an early age, frightened of their male peers and causes them to repress their anger.  This is the reason they become timid and unaggressive or, in the vernacular, wimps or “pansies”.

      Repressing anger, by itself, is well known to cause many other consequential problems (such as drug abuse, impotence, heart disease, bad relationships to name a few) but, being frightened of most of one’s male peers adds a further dimension to the problem, causing gay men to avoid large areas of life that other men derive a great deal of pleasure from.

      Most people think of anger as a display of emotion that is terrifying and destructive but this is only anger that is out of control.  Anger can be compared to electricity  -  which is a powerful and useful force  -  but when it is out of control it is extremely dangerous, can be destructive and prove fatal.  They are good servants but bad masters.  Anger that is controlled is a powerful and constructive force that gay men, by repressing their anger, are unable to use or benefit from.  This is the helplessness that Donald Black describes as like existing in a straitjacket.  Gay men then get left behind by those men who are able to use their anger constructively, leaving the gay men feeling inadequate by comparison and lowering their self-esteem.  Compounded by the problems caused by repressing anger (as we have seen above), this can sink to self-hatred.

      An examination of the psychiatric literature reveals that the psychiatric profession does not seem to have realised that gay men repress their anger (in spite of the classic symptoms being common on the gay scene) or that this is due to a neurosis or that it can, therefore, be cured.  This book is, therefore, a major leap forward for gay men.

      Donald Black has come to the aid of gay men.  He has discovered the cause of the neurosis and how it can be cured.  But, here we are not talking about a cure that is in proportions of open-heart surgery or the amputation of a limb.  We are talking about a cure that can be effected in five minutes sitting comfortably in a cosy armchair with a book  -  Escape the Gay Straitjacket.   It is not necessary for them to undergo years of exhaustive and expensive psychotherapy because Donald Black has discovered what the cure is and why the problem affects 90% of gay men and not the other 10% and his book takes the reader through the cure, effortlessly.  He has been researching the subject for the last 30 years and has combined his findings with his own perceptive life experience that brought him to discover in the first place what the problem and what the cure are.  All we have to do is to follow in his footsteps.

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