SOLVING GAY PROBLEMS
What are the problems of gay men?
What are your problems?
Which of these do you suffer from?
Depression, being bullied, having bad relationships, being late for appointments, impotence, needing “poppers” to reach an orgasm, being unable to stand up for yourself, being frightened of “violence”, masochism, sadism, feeling oppressed by society, bitching, making silly mistakes, being forgetful and feelings of hopelessness are all quite common on the gay scene. You may have some of them, and you will know others who suffer from some of them too. (Only 10% of gay men are not plagued by them.)
OPPOSITE EXTREME
What do these problems all have in common?
They are all symptoms of repressed anger!
How can that be?
If you suffer from three or four of these problems that is enough to wreck your life and if you suffer from any more you will be living in what Donald Black describes as a ‘straitjacket’! Helpless, and unable to take control of situations that arise, having to run away and avoid situations that overpower you. Why should you have to live like that when other men don't have to?
Other symptoms of repressed anger include: being frightened of other men, high blood pressure, stomach aches, stomach ulcers, passive aggression, colitis, heart disease, anxiety, guilt, needing alcohol, and needing hard drugs.
If repressing their anger is so bad for them, why do gay men repress their anger? Donald Black claims it is due to a neurosis that is acquired early in life.
He should know! For the first 30 years of his life he suffered from the neurosis himself. That was until he attended group psychotherapy at the Tavistock Clinic in London and the neurosis that caused him to repress his anger, was cured. Gay men believe that the way they are (and this includes the problems they endure) is just the way they are, what it means to be gay. Donald has shown that this is simply a myth. It is untrue! Gay men can change their lives if only they realise it is possible AND preferable. How would you like to be liberated from your problems?
Repressing anger is well known to cause more problems than it solves. Donald claims that most gay men are not aware that they repress their anger or that they suffer from a neurosis, as Donald himself was not aware of it until his neurosis was cured. Now he is keen to help other gay men cure their neurosis so that they can get more enjoyment out of life too.
Since the 1960s when Irving Bieber, an American psychiatrist claimed in his book Male Homosexuality that homosexuals were “mentally ill” gay activists have shunned any suggestion that this may be the case.
Some now veer to the opposite extreme. When Donald was explaining about gay men repressing their anger one American guy retorted that “gays don’t have neuroses”. Well, maybe they don't if they are living in Cloud-Cukooland.
ELECTRICITY
Clearly this is nonsense as Donald pointed out to him. “What is it that prevents gay men from having a neurosis? Why should it be that only heterosexuals can suffer from a neurosis and gay men can’t?”
Many people are frightened of anger as they see it as people shouting and smashing things up, but that is anger that is out of control, it is not anger that is being used constructively to one's advantage. Anger is a force like electricity, that one can use to improve your life. Electricity and anger are good servants but bad masters. When they are out of control they are very dangerous.
Most straight men use their anger to get what they want. Gay men see this happening every day (though they may believe they don't see it) and this leaves gay men feeling inferior, unable to do the things that straight men are able to achieve by using their anger constructively. Donald has discovered and realised how much better life is when one can express and use one’s anger.
NHS FAILS GAY MEN
As 90% of gay men are unaware that they repress their anger they are hardly likely to go to their doctors and ask for help to cure the neurosis that causes the problem because this is a problem they do not realise they suffer from.
If they did and their doctor referred them to a psychiatrist what would he do? Donald has examined the psychiatric literature, and particularly appertaining to gay men, and found no reference to repressed anger or how it should be treated.
This included, he claims, some massive tomes written by an array of psychiatrists, each specialists in their own field, such as Textbook of Homosexuality and Mental Health which is intended to explain to psychiatrists how to treat gay men.
How can psychiatrists be blind to the repressed anger in gay men when it completely twists their lives and the evidence that it exists is everywhere on the gay scene as 90% of gay men display symptoms of repressed anger?
Sadly, it appears that at present neither GPs nor psychiatrists are aware of this problem that besets gay men or how it should be cured. The NHS (National Health Service in Britain) has monumentally failed gay men.
Fortunately, Donald Black has come to our rescue with his book Escape the Gay Straitjacket published by Power Books which explains in plain language how this neurosis occurs early in life and how it can be cured so that you are no longer frightened of “violence” occurring when you have to confront other men. At last you can escape from your problems!
This is not a cure that will involve years of expensive psycho-analysis or psychotherapy. Donald Black knows what the problem is and, from his own experience, how it can be cured. All you have to do is to settle down in a comfy armchair and read his book!
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ESCAPE THE GAY
STRAITJACKET
THE SIMPLE TRUTH
THE PAINFUL TRUTH
BACKGROUND
WHAT READERS SAY
DELVING DEEPER
SOLVING GAY PROBLEMS
CAUSE OF LOW
SELF-ESTEEM
CAUSE OF S&M
INFLUENCE OF PARENTS
WHAT IS A NEUROSIS?
CURING THE
GAY NEUROSIS
STOCKISTS
MAIL ORDER
PROBLEM PAGE
REVIEWS
WRESTLING FOR
GAY GUYS
LINKS
ESCAPE THE GAY
STRAITJACKET
THE SIMPLE TRUTH
THE PAINFUL TRUTH
BACKGROUND
WHAT READERS SAY
DELVING DEEPER
SOLVING GAY PROBLEMS
CAUSE OF LOW
SELF-ESTEEM
CAUSE OF S&M
INFLUENCE OF PARENTS
WHAT IS A NEUROSIS?
CURING THE
GAY NEUROSIS
STOCKISTS
MAIL ORDER
PROBLEM PAGE
REVIEWS
WRESTLING FOR
GAY GUYS
LINKS
ESCAPE THE GAY
STRAITJACKET
THE SIMPLE TRUTH
THE PAINFUL TRUTH
BACKGROUND
WHAT READERS SAY
DELVING DEEPER
SOLVING GAY PROBLEMS
CAUSE OF LOW
SELF-ESTEEM
CAUSE OF S&M
INFLUENCE OF PARENTS
WHAT IS A NEUROSIS?
CURING THE
GAY NEUROSIS
STOCKISTS
MAIL ORDER
PROBLEM PAGE
REVIEWS
WRESTLING FOR
GAY GUYS
LINKS
ESCAPE THE GAY
STRAITJACKET
THE SIMPLE TRUTH
THE PAINFUL TRUTH
BACKGROUND
WHAT READERS SAY
DELVING DEEPER
SOLVING GAY PROBLEMS
CAUSE OF LOW
SELF-ESTEEM
CAUSE OF S&M
INFLUENCE OF PARENTS
WHAT IS A NEUROSIS?
CURING THE
GAY NEUROSIS
STOCKISTS
MAIL ORDER
PROBLEM PAGE
REVIEWS
WRESTLING FOR
GAY GUYS
LINKS
ESCAPE THE GAY
STRAITJACKET
THE SIMPLE TRUTH
THE PAINFUL TRUTH
BACKGROUND
WHAT READERS SAY
DELVING DEEPER
SOLVING GAY PROBLEMS
CAUSE OF LOW
SELF-ESTEEM
CAUSE OF S&M
INFLUENCE OF PARENTS
WHAT IS A NEUROSIS?
CURING THE
GAY NEUROSIS
STOCKISTS
MAIL ORDER
PROBLEM PAGE
REVIEWS
WRESTLING FOR
GAY GUYS
LINKS
ESCAPE THE GAY
STRAITJACKET
THE SIMPLE TRUTH
THE PAINFUL TRUTH
BACKGROUND
WHAT READERS SAY
DELVING DEEPER
SOLVING GAY PROBLEMS
CAUSE OF LOW
SELF-ESTEEM
CAUSE OF S&M
INFLUENCE OF PARENTS
WHAT IS A NEUROSIS?
CURING THE
GAY NEUROSIS
STOCKISTS
MAIL ORDER
PROBLEM PAGE
REVIEWS
WRESTLING FOR
GAY GUYS
LINKS
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